Category Archive for "Safety Conversations"

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Create Your iPlan – free webinar

Here’s my next free offer for you: a webinar on Creating Your Family’s iPlan. I want to help you prepare your child for the online world by teaching them healthy boundaries, by helping them protect their real-life relationships, and by managing their…

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Parents, talk about the Stanford rape case with your kids

If the woman Brock Allen Turner raped had woken up alone, behind the dumpster, with her clothes beside her, chances are she would have gone home and never reported anything.   Chances are, he would have gotten away with it. …

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Help your teen make a Good Sex Plan!

I know, I know!  You don’t want to think about your child having sex, but it’s going to happen someday, and wouldn’t it be great if it happened well? You can help your child avoid mistakes, heartache, and possibly disaster…

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You’ve got to name it to tame it!

Welcome to 2016!  I’d love to hear your New Year’s resolutions, especially as they relate to your kids.  Allow me suggest one more: Teach your kids the words they need to talk about emotions and sex. Last week, I attended…

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What about sex-ed for special needs kids?

Hooray! AB 329, The California Healthy Youth Act, PASSED!   Before, California public schools were not required to teach sex-ed at all – legally, they could opt out.  No longer!  Now every California public middle school and high school must…

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What to do if THEY’RE uncomfortable

  I’ve seen videos of kids covering their ears or running away.  Some of you have told me similar stories – that your child refuses to listen or flat out tells you not to talk to them about sex.  …

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Don’t make my grandmother’s mistake

I was ten years old, and I was staying at my maternal grandmother’s house.  My parents had separated the year before, and my father was coming to town. To get ready for his visit, my grandmother took me to her…

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Your teen is probably watching porn – now what is it doing to them?

To wrap up this series on puberty (if you missed them, here are my articles on the physical changes, the behavioral changes, and protecting against shame), it’s important to tell you about the effects of porn on the developing brain. …

Anya Manes Coaching, talking about sex and relationships, inoculating against shame

Remember “dying of embarrassment”?

To wrap up this mini series on puberty, I feel it is necessary to address shame.  (If you missed it, check out these posts on the physical changes and the behavioral changes during puberty.)  Adolescence is often a time of lost…

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FREE Webinar: Talking to Kids about Sex & Relationships – what to say when

  Most parents don’t realize how early this generation of children are being exposed to sexually explicit content. Media messages influence our children’s understanding of relationships and body image from a very young age.  Most kids are starting puberty earlier…