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The biggest mistake people make re Boundaries

Did anyone directly teach you about Boundaries?  No? Me neither. Don’t you wish someone had?   Most of us fumble through, making mistakes over and over before we hopefully learn from them. Much of that can be avoided though, with a little bit...
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Bribes and Body Boundaries

Recently I was interviewed for the Raising Toddlers Courageously online conference, all about sexual abuse prevention and body boundaries and consent.  Besides talking about those, I mentioned incentivizing…specifically, how we’d used gummy bears to get our toddler into her car...
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My 13 year old son Googled porn…

A mom posted to a private group, asking for suggestions.  She shared that her 13 year old son tried to Google porn on his phone.   There were a variety of responses from the other parents.  The assumption was that...
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You’re getting the content – want the discussion?

You’re reading all this content, and maybe you’re processing in your own time and life, but…the most interesting part of any workshop is the Q &A, right?  When you get to ask your questions, and hear how others are thinking...
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The Sex-ed Lab Practical

Did you have lab practicals in school?   It’s when your science teacher tests your skills, but not on paper.  You actually have to interact, do the thing, to show that you know how.  Most science activities are practice.  The...
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Teach your teen that “good” is a sh!tty adjective

I’m guilty of this – are you?   My childhood was full of “good” girl, “good” student, “good” friend and “good” job.  Adulthood had “good” looking, “good” worker and “good” mother.  But this word “good” – what does it really...
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Skill building the 3 step apology

Ever messed up?   I mess up constantly, not so much because I’m incompetent, but because I keep trying new things.  It gives me many opportunities to model how to apologize!   Some of us give a perfunctory “I’m sorry”...
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Your adolescent daughter’s self-esteem

Adolescent self-esteem, can you relate to this? One of my clients noticed that her 13 year old daughter is overly anxious about whether she’s on good terms with her peers.  Her daughter asks often, both in person and over text,...
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Anatomy 101: Vulva Vs. Vagina

Ok, let’s get technical!   At my last workshop a mom asked me with honest humility what the difference is between the two V words.  The other moms laughed with appreciation.   One picked up a book she recognized from...
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